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The author visited a rural town in Ohio where an immigrant family had made the news as the father bade his family farewell at the airport because he was being deported to Mexico. She met his four kids and connected with other families anticipating, seeking sanctuary from, or who have experienced deportation.
Most of the chapter takes place back in Connecticut, where the author lives. She continues to explore stories surrounding the theme of deportation closer to home, connecting with men who take up sanctuary in a nearby church and their families, all of whom are living in daily stress, fear, and anxiety over the future and trying to cope with the separation and imprisonment of a loved one, even if they are allowed to visit. Taking up sanctuary is rare, the author explains. A person can request to live in a house of worship “because ICE has a policy against forcing their way into places of worship” (132). She worries about the imminent possibility of a reversal of that policy, but says, “It would certainly be bad PR” (132). The author first discusses Leonel Chávez and his family as they work to reverse his deportation order. The author gets personally involved with his immigration lawyer, and, “On Thanksgiving Day, out of nowhere, Leonel was released. He was out!” (136).
His spot in the church then went to Francisco Valderrama. Again, the author grows close to the man and his family. She becomes a mother figure for his two daughters and the family embraces both the author and her partner as relatives. While the familial dynamic is a tremendous source of support for everyone, Francisco’s situation weighs heavily on them, especially the children, who develop dissociative tendencies and struggle to understand what is happening to their father. The author reflects on the advice she can provide, which revolves around getting a good education and disrupting the oppressive systems that they observe and experience in the world.
The final chapter in the book largely centers on the author’s personal story as it had played out before the book’s publication. Her family, always under strenuous conditions because of their undocumented status, had suffered and the relationships within it had changed. She especially notices how much her father has aged and receded into himself, which was a pattern of behavior that many other immigrants in the book experienced as well. Aged immigrants report feeling lonely and unwanted. One man, Octavio, “says that he feels depressed and anxious” when the author asks him “how he feels on a daily basis as an older man without family here” (154). He goes on to say that he feels sick, cannot get help from doctors, and sees the feelings of loss, “depression, anxiety, or worse” among his peers (155). Another common sentiment among older immigrants who have spent a long time in the US is that they want to return home to die (160). A woman named Altagracia concludes, “I’m not wanted here, and I do not want to live in eternity in a place where I’m not wanted” (160).
The author tries to resurrect some of her father’s old enthusiasm and her own relationship with him by attempting to let him teach her how to swim at a beach on Long Island. They’re unsuccessful, however. Villavicencio says her limbs just sink when she tries to float. She says, “Both of us realized at the same time that this was a true thing about me, and we tried to change it until finally our limbs gave out and we returned to shore. I was not able to restore the natural order of things” (171). The failed attempt to resurrect old family dynamics at the beach is symbolic of the larger circumstances. Eventually, the author’s father leaves the family. The author, however, seems at peace about it, recognizing that even though her father “handled it the wrong way [and] totaled some people’s lives in his wake,” she can respect him wanting to finally live for himself (172). She also says, “And now my mom is free to figure out what makes her happy” (172), which must resonate after meeting the women in Miami who lift each other up by having friendships outside of the house (172).
The final section of the book largely ruminates on age and the passage of time. Through the many stories of immigrant experiences covered in the book, the author has documented patterns in the progression of immigration policy and public sentiment. At the time of the book’s publication, immigrant communities—particularly undocumented ones—were in an especially pronounced period of peril, anticipating ICE raids, deportations, and hate crimes at increased rates. The author proves, however, that even with the intensified conditions of the Trump administration’s immigration policies, the undocumented have long suffered in this country, and the toll is most visible in the aged bodies of day laborers, broken families that could not withstand the stress, and a general sentiment among immigrants that as they neared the end of their life, they wanted to return home to their country of origin and die there instead of in the US.
The author provided information about her family steadily throughout the book, but they play a more prominent role in the ending. All along, the author had seen her own family’s concerns and struggles reflected in the research she conducted with other immigrant families. At the end of the book, the author sees her family bear some of the ultimate tolls of their living conditions. Her father changes, recedes from the family, and eventually leaves it. The author recognizes that he is old and has sacrificed so much to provide for the family, and she says, “It was his turn to be happy” away from them (172). Similarly, she hopes her mother will be free to find happiness outside of a bad marriage and among others who might share her experiences.
In addition to parents, children are very important in the final section of the book. In the Cleveland chapter, the author meets with kids of fathers who have been deported or who are hiding in sanctuary to avoid deportation. It strikes her how very young and impressionable the children are, not yet with a full understanding of the hardships they will face or the histories that have shaped their struggles. “Jesus Christ,” she reflects. “These are children” (120). She also grows close to the daughters of a man in sanctuary, becoming like a member of their family herself. She says, though, that she doesn’t want to have kids herself because she “already [has] too many people to take care of” (146). Indeed, caring for parents becomes a burden for immigrant children in more ways than it can be for non-immigrant children.
Many of the elderly immigrants she meets express their expectation that their children will care for them. Some even voice that it is wholly necessary to have kids just for that purpose. The author asks one woman “if the pressure of that might be hard on the children” (161). The woman concedes that it might be, “But that’s the tradition” (161). In her own life, the author takes that tradition very seriously, but it is yet another difficulty for immigrant families, and one that requires both money and time that are hard to secure as an undocumented person (or as a member of an immigrant family in general). The author does not express any hopefulness that these difficult patterns will change. The book is not a collection of proposed policy; it is a snapshot of the many undocumented immigrants living in the United States, what they face, and how they survive.
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